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Monday, December 20, 2010

1. Create Positive Attitude

                 First thing for your success is you must change your attitude.I will explain you,In most of the countries people become succeed not only for their knowledge but for their attitude, which will affect their goals.William James of Harward University said,

          "The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind."
    
     Can you read minds?Reading mind is easier than you think.Perhabs you've never thought of it/but you read minds of the people,and they read your mind,every day.
     
     You can read the mind of the fellow sitting at a desk.You sense,by observing his expressions and mannerisms,how he feels toward his jobs.You can read the minds of salesmen,student,husband and wivea;you not only can-you do

    Attitude is the most important word in english dictionary. It applies to every one's personal and professional life.Can a doctor be a good doctor without a good attitude?Can a student,teacher,bussinessmen,employers be good in their roles without a good attitude?

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 Factors that determine your attitude:
           
              While we were born with tendencies toward temperaments,there are three factors that largerly determine our attitude formation.these are the tripple E's of attitude:

           1. Environment
           2. Experience
           3.Education.

      Environment:

  Environment consist of the following:
  • Home:Positive or negative influences
  • School:Peer pressure
  • Work:supportive or over-critical supervisor
  • Media:Television,newspaper,magazenes,radio.
  • cultural background
  • Religious background
  • Traditions and beliefs
  • Social environment
  • Political environment 
    All these environment creates a culture.every place-be it a home,organisation,or a country-has a culture.For if you go to a home and find the parents and children well-behaved,courrteous and considerate.You go to another home where everyone is fighting like cats and dogs.As in general:-
                 " In a positive environment,a marginal performer's output goes up.In a negative environment,a good performer's output goes down" 
     Take some time to evaluate how the environment that you are in affects you, and the one you create affects others.
      Experiences:
      Our behavior changes according to our experiences with various people. If we have a positive experience with a person,our attitude towards him is likely to be positive and conversely negative experiences tend to make us caution.Experiences and events become refference points in our lives, we draw conclusions which serve as guidlines for the future.
     Education:
      Education refers to both formal and informal education.Strategically applied,knowledge translates into wisdom which in turn translates into success.
                The role of the educator is vital.A teacher affects eternity.The ripple effect is immeasurable.Education ought to teach us not only how to make a living but also how to live.



THE BENIFITS OF A POSITIVE ATTITUDE
   There are many advantages to having a positive attitude.The advantages are easy to see.But what is easy to see is also easy to miss!

 A positive attitude:

Benefits for you:
  • Makes for a pleasing personality
  • Is energing
  • Increases your enjoyment of life
  • Inspires others around you
  • Helps you become a contributing member of society and an asset to your country.
And for the organisation:
  • Increase productivity
  • Fosters team work
  • Solves problem
  • Improves quality
  • Breeds loyality
  • Increase profits
  • Fosters better relationships with employers,employees and customers
  • Reduces stress
THE CONSEQUENCES OF A NEGATIVE ATTITUDE:

         People with negative attitudes have a hard time keeping friendships,jobs,marriages,and relationships.Negative attitudes lead to:
  • Bitterness
  • Resentment
  • A purposeless life
  • Ill health
  • High stress levels for themselves and others
      Negative attitude create an unpleasant environment at home,at work and become a liability to society.They pass on their negative behaviour to others around them and to the future generations.


HOW TO BUILD A POSITIVE ATTITUDE
 

     How do you build and maintain a positive attitude?
·         Become aware of the principles that build a positive attitude.
·         Desire to be positive.
·         Cultivate the discipline and dedication to practice those principles
         As adults, regardless of our environment, education and experience, who is responsible for our attitude? We are. We have to accept responsibility for our behavior and actions. Some people blame everyone and everything but themselves.
        People with negative attitudes often blame the whole world- their parents, teachers, spouse, bosses, the stars, fate, luck, the economy and the government- for their failures. Thinking of the positive things that are true, honest and good, will put in a positive state of mind. For more click here

8 STEPS TO ATTITUDE CHANGE

     If you want to build and maintain a positive attitude, you need to consciously practice the following steps:

Step 1: Change Focus, Look for the Positive
        You need to become a seeker of good. You need to focus on the positive in your life. Start looking for what is right in a person or situation instead of looking for what is wrong. Because of our conditioning, most of us are so attuned to finding fault and looking for what is wrong that we often forget to see the positive picture.
       Some people always look at the negative side. Who is a pessimist? Pessimists:
·         Are unhappy when they have no troubles to speak of
·         Feel bad when they feel good, for fear they will feel worse when they feel better
·         Spend most of their life at compliant counters
·         Always turn out the lights to see how dark it is
·         Are always looking for cracks in the mirror of life
·         Cannot enjoy their health because they think they may be sick tomorrow
·         Don’t see the doughnut, only the hole
·         Believe that the sun shines only to cast shadows
·         Forget their blessings and count their troubles
·         Know that hard work never hurts anyone but believe “why take a chance?”
Cautions: Looking for the positive does not necessarily mean overlooking faults. Negative people always criticize

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